Hello dear reader, and welcome to…what day are we on now? Thursday? Friday?…oh. Monday. That’s a shame. Anyway, how on earth are you?
Like most people, I love the idea of being prepared for stuff. Wouldn’t it be great if we were the kind of people who always had a spare pen and a packet of tissues? Wouldn’t it be brilliant to be able to reply “yes” whenever someone at work is pleading for painkillers? There are people out there who are reliable, dependable and always able to help. (Writing that bit has made me realise that I’m basically describing my mum here, which is nice.)
These people seem to have all the answers, because they have thought of every possible outcome of their day before they left home. To disorganised eejits like me, these people seem to have a prescient affinity with the universe that allows them to foresee and deflect crises. In reality, these people just have their heads screwed on properly, and they are prepared for life because they’ve learned from experience. For instance, experience tells a British person to always, always, always take sunglasses and an umbrella, just in case. If you are the kind of person who learns from situations and equips yourself for similar occasions accordingly, then you are a winner.
Sometimes we can’t help but be equipped a certain way, because of who we are and what we do. For example, I am a writer, so odds are I’ll have loads of pens and at least one notebook on me. One of my friends, who is a child minder, always has plasters and formula in her handbag. A friend of mine who works with animals always has hand sanitiser and antihistamines with him. Where we go and what we get up to dictates how prepared we are for daily life, and to a certain extent this is true of our personal lives, too.
Where you’ve been in life prepares you for emotional situations. Just as the sensible girl takes a pair of flat shoes along on a night out because she knows that her stilettos will fail her, people who’ve had their hearts broken a few times tend to equip themselves with caution when entering a new relationship. If you have been brought up to be emotionally expressive then you will be well-equipped to offer someone support and a hug when they are sad. If you have ever embarrassed yourself on national television, you will be perfectly able to comfort your child if they mess up a line in their school play. That’s a bit of an extreme example, but you know what I mean: what happens to us equips us.
We have to learn to be Boy Scouts about bad stuff that happens: think of each experience as a badge you’ve earned, which equips you to deal with similar situations next time, and to help other people going through the same thing. Be prepared.
On that note, I’m off to buy some wellies for a camping trip this weekend. Have a glorious Monday.