Good morning! How are you feeling? All set for a new week?
Yesterday I wrote a fairly heavy entry where I ‘came out’ (if that’s the right term) as someone who lives with mental health issues, and to compensate for showing my darker side I promised you that today’s blog would be full of whimsy. Let me see what I can do…
It has been said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Over the years this nugget of wisdom has been attributed to Mark Twain, Benjamin Franklin, Albert Einstein, David Cameron, my Year 2 teacher and probably you at some point. (If it WAS you, well done. It’s a very good piece of sagacity.) It makes an excellent point that human beings, despite our incredible evolutionary achievements, do not always perceive bad consequences of an action to be a deterrent. Drinking too much leads to hangovers, eating too much makes us fat and sneakily checking your ex’s Facebook profile is always going to put you in a bad mood. We know the consequences, but we keep at it anyway. What’s that about?
It’s the same sort of thing with sequels to films: we think that we’ll like it if the sequel has the same characters, the same actors, similar situations, in-jokes from the last film and a similar narrative structure, but when we get those things the feature always falls a bit flat. We assume that the reliability of familiarity is enough to keep our attention, but is isn’t. We like it when sequels introduce new characters, have new perilous circumstances and don’t rely on in-jokes from the first movie in order to make us laugh.
It must be the same in life: we say that we don’t like change (especially given that ‘change’ in this day and age tends to be synonymous with ‘expense’), but if our lives stayed the same we would get unbelievably bored. Can you imagine if you never met new people, changed jobs or went abroad? (Please note that I have heroically resisted the urge to make a joke about Americans living in the Bible Belt at this point.)
We don’t always like change but we need it, and if we embrace it we might find that the sequels (or new sections) of our lives are just as good as the original. They could even be better, like Toy Story‘s sequels. Only try not to fall into a furnace.
Have a wonderful Monday!